THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR BY Glory Chidinma Uwakwe.



Have you ever wondered what would happen if only we have no fear of things to come as we have no hold or control over our future as we can only plan,prepare and have faith and hope that it would turn out alright in the end. If am being honest fear is the reason this blog hadn't happened earlier and funny how the fear isn't that i can't do it because, i know i could but fear of why do i think i can do it and it would even make sense.Am sure a lot of us can relate to this as regards moving to the next level and phase of our lives and the most common of it all is fear of "FAILURE"according to Will Smith "The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future,it's a product of our very own imagination causing us to fear things that are yet to exist in the present and may never exist"DANGER is very real but FEAR is a CHOICE.    The Reason i chose the topic FEAR is because every great man/woman out there today has felt it at one point in time but they beat it to it's game and now am learning to beat it too and i also want you to wonder even the bible commanded us not to fear or worry in over 80 bible scriptures and in Isaiah 43:1 "Don't Fear,for i have redeemed you;i have called you by name and you are mine,God knows the enemy uses fear to limit us to see our weaknesses rather than our strength even though your strength is all you need to pull through.  Beautiful people i once remembered an exam i was so scared of that i even zeroed my mind on seeing a D as a blessing and so with that mindset i went into the hall with the sole aim of writing to get a D,sat down and wrote without because i knew the worst that would happen was a D, so i thanked God already for it and wrote with peace of mind;ladies and gentlemen it came out as a B and that was when i realised that we really can't do much in a state of panic and fear but just like Jamie foxx said "Nothing is on the other side of fear".Many fear disorder gets treated using exposure therapy which help people Unlearn a threat of fear responsible thereby breaking the association between the trigger(reason for fear)and the harmful consequences  of the threat  by presenting  patients with the trigger but without the consequences,in simple english the best way to defeat fear is do what it is you're scared to do else that fear will live with you for the rest of your life not knowing if you would have succeeded .  So in essence what if you were meant to become the best writer in the world? what if you're supposed to be one of the best successful business man/woman or a well respected entrepreneur and even the best staff that company ever had?what if you would make an amazing parents to some lucky kids???You would never know if you let fear stop you and who says if that doesn't work out it won't birth something greater and bigger.THERE MAY NEVER BE A NEXT TIME,ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY,SOMETIMES IT'S NOW OR NEVER AND YES YOU'RE GOOD ENOUGH SO JUST START AND THINGS WILL TAKE FORM I PROMISE.#GLORYINSPIRES#